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paul949494
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Ok

Last night i asked my friend if he would like a blow job and he said yes

So i sucked his **** for a good 20minutes until he was near cumming, i finished with a handjob

I would like to do it again, only this time deep throat and swallow.

Would it be ok to ask him again?

I am a curious male so you know

Thanks [Smile]

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Heather
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I'm not sure what you mean in asking if it would be okay.

If people are in a position to be able to give full consent to any kind of sex, and everyone is consenting, then on the most basic ethical level, it's okay.

You also want to make sure you're thinking about safety. Unprotected oral sex presents risks of infections, so with a new partner, using condoms and talking about testing is important to protect everyone's health best.

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I was wondering what his reaction would be if i was to ask again
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We can't possibly predict that: we don't know him, and we also weren't there the last time the two of you engaged in oral sex to know what the dynamics were like.

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ok thanks

i will ask him again

and see what happens from there

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My rule of thumb is basically that if I have the feeling that asking someone to do something sexual is something they'll probably be iffy about or say no to, especially if it's a friend, it's usually better not to ask.

If it seems, on the other hand, like they share my interest and are likely to be receptive, then it's okay to ask.

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