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connor223
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I have a best friend who is kind and caring. I like him so much mostly because of his cute baby face which is 'irresistible' for me. Last two days, I went to his house and slept there as we need to complete an assignment. We were normal at first but things started to change when we talk about sexual matter. I do not know how we started the topic but all I knew is we started to touch each other body and when both of us become aroused, we start to hug and touch each other genital. I'm quite afraid and so does he when both of us went naked. But we continue hugging and help 'pleasuring' each other till we cum.

My friend felt nothing after that but I felt very excited and hope this will always happen on me. I can't stop thinking what I did with him and always thinking of his genital when I want to masturbate. And I do imagine many of my friends genital when they're changing in the locker room although some with their underwear on. As long as that person is handsome or cute I can't stop myself from imaginating his genital. I'm still a virgin and of course I would want to have sex with girl. But I guess I'm really a bisexual or gay although I try not to be either one of it.

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Connor: I noticed you posted this in gender issues. Does this feel primarily like a gender -- rather than a relationship -- issue for you? if so, want to fill me in a bit?

I also wonder why you say "of course you would want to have sex with a girl." That's because...well, it's not such an of course. Not everyone does, not everyone experiences feelings of sexual attraction to the opposite (or a different) sex or gender.

If YOU have the feelings you do about men, though, as well as those feelings about women, then generally, yes, that suggests bisexuality, which simply means a person can feel attracted to members of both/all sexes or genders. And we can't really "try" to be a given orientation in terms of our feelings: we can't control who we are attracted to, we can only control if and when we choose to put any of those feelings into action.

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