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Danielson
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is it wrong to wear womens underware. I have always secretly wanted to know what it would be like if i was a girl. i am a 20 yr old guy who sometimes like to put on panties and a bra and somtimes langerie. i guess i am confused more.
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LittleOneUSN
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I doubt this will help...

But I'm a 20 year old female, and sometime's I like to put on my boy friends underwear, somehow its more of a comfort thing to me.

As far as I know at some point in everyone's life they wonder what it's like to be of the opposite sex, It's pretty normal.


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Heather
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Crossdressing in undergarments of another gender isn't all that unusual.

While wearing clothes intended for another gender really can't give you any experience in BEING that other gender or knowing what it's like to be that other gender, it's nothing to worry about.


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MNtomboy
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Hey I'm a girl who wears boxers, and I also act like a guy a lot, does that make it wrong? no. And I'm not gay either that's why it bugs me that people accept girls acting like guys, but if I guy is acting 'girly' people assume they're gay. What you wear has nothing to do with your sexual prefrence, at least not in my case.

That also reminds me, that one of my friends (a guy) made some comment about wanting a thong, and since then he's recieved a bunch from his girl friends. He thinks it's really funny, but I don't know what he actually does with them, besides wear them on his head for fun.

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KCallahan
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I'm curious as to what the motivation is. I don't think it's wrong at all, but there are several reasons one can crossdress. I "crossdress" because my sex does not match my gender. Soome individuals crossdress because they enjoy doing so. Others crossdress because it fills a sexual need. So, I think the questions isn't "is this right or wrong?" and more "What do I gain from this?" Each answer leads to other questions that perhaps should be explored further if you feel like it.
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PrettyGreenEyez226
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A friend of mine wears thongs...Note: he's a male...

It doesn't mean you're gay...doesn't mean you're a crossdresser. All it means is you're curious and if you like it, you're simply comfortable.

Girls wear men's boxers at times, right girls?? I know I wear my bf's lol.

Do and wear what makes you feel comfy

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