Originally posted by butterflywings:
you don't hear women talking about how much they want to have 2 guys at once. yet, it's 'normal' for guys to talk about threesomes.
Oh sure you do. Depending on who you're hanging out with, you're liable to hear all sorts of things. My office is chock full of women, and I hear all sorts of things all day long that venture into threesome territory. To stipulate that this is something that is purely gender-based seems awfully myopic to me.
To be honest, I'm not too sure how talking about threesomes will help you come to any conclusions about your sexuality, darlin'. And in fact, while we can discuss them in general terms, we need to make sure we keep things PG-13 as per the rules and regs of this fine establishment. So let's be cool, eh?
Opinions on threesomes are probably going to be as varied as the people who post them. The general consensus tends to be that they're all good so long as each person has a solid understanding of what they are getting into. Like anything else, jumping into a threesome is not a smart idea unless the consequences are weighed and understood. Just something one might want to keep in mind.
I'm not sure there is any one thing that makes bisexual girls any "hotter" than gay or straight ones. And by the same token, I'm not sure there is any double standard there at all. Frankly, different people are going to find different things attractive. While you may find one person who has a hankerin' for bisexual women, that person's sibling might drool over gay men. There just isn't any way to predict such things, and I don't think there is enough credence out there to make such blanket statements.
So take heart, my friend. No need to freak out over perceived double standards, and no need to be bothered by the concept of threesomes. In the immortal words of Benjamin Franklin, "It's all good."
BruinDan, "Number Three," PBOM
Beware the naked man who offereth you his pants.