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noodlespanda
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I'm a girl. Yes I am. I've always been sort of boyish, but never really into stereotypical masculine things. I wear baggy-ish clothes and I hate most 'girly' things. For the past year or so now, I've really wanted to be a boy. But I don't want to actually have surgery or anything. I think I should have been born a gay guy XD Part of me wants to get my hair cut unisex-ish but I'm just too scared to do that.. I don't know if I'm gender confused.. o_o Help meee! [Confused]
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The Happy Hermit
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its totally normal
u just have to ride this out and see how it turns out
identity crisi are something that need to be answered only by reflecting on other's experiences and looking inward to the depths of your soul
as it happens, it is normal to think of these things but what u have to realise is that it doesn't really matter
you are who you are and you will inevitably become who your will become, be it genderqueer, tomboyish or whatever else. and if people dont except that
theyr just limiting theyr own world by discluding u
dont worry
just
go with it
that my 2 cents!
hope it helps

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