Donate Now
We've Moved! Check out our new boards.
  New Poll  
my profile | directory login | search | faq | forum home

  next oldest topic   next newest topic
» Scarleteen Boards: 2000 - 2014 (Archive) » SCARLETEEN CENTRAL » Safer Sex & Birth Control » Condom Breaks - He Pulls Out

 - UBBFriend: Email this page to someone!    
Author Topic: Condom Breaks - He Pulls Out
Member # 108546

Icon 1 posted      Profile for Buggie     Send New Private Message       Edit/Delete Post 
So, our condoms have been breaking frequently. Normally, there's a loud pop, and my boyfriend has always immediately pulled out. Beforehand, this was due to trapped air pockets at the tip of the condom. Once we dealt with that, we noticed it was breaking because of lack of lubrication. When I talked to my doctor, she said there could be tiny tears in the condom before it snaps, which is worrying me. We continually check the condom during sex, and I was wondering if there was a chance we missed anything - can you see tears? I know there is little chance of getting pregnant from pre-ejaculate, and both times my boyfriend assured me that he was far from coming. Any way I could get some peace of mind?
Posts: 1 | Registered: Sep 2013  |  IP: Logged | Report this post to a Moderator
Executive Director & Founder
Member # 3

Icon 1 posted      Profile for Heather     Send New Private Message       Edit/Delete Post 
I don't know what on earth your doctor was talking about. Unless she was saying if stored improperly, the latex can degrade -- and that's true -- sounds like her condom education ...well, isn't so hot.

If you store your condoms properly, they're within the expiry date, and where you purchased them from stored them properly, there won't be "tiny tears" to see.

So, how about we figure out the real likely problem here?

Have you now been adding extra lubricant to your condoms (including a couple drops inside them), which is indeed important? And have you been storing them properly and making sure they aren't past the expiry date? leaving the right amount of room at the tip?

[ 09-25-2013, 04:10 PM: Message edited by: Heather ]

Heather Corinna, Executive Director & Founder, Scarleteen
About Me • Get our book!
Never doubt that a small group of thoughtful, committed citizens can change the world. Indeed, it is the only thing that ever has. - Margaret Mead

Posts: 68290 | From: An island near Seattle | Registered: May 2000  |  IP: Logged | Report this post to a Moderator

  New Poll   Close Topic   Feature Topic   Move Topic   Delete Topic next oldest topic   next newest topic
 - Printer-friendly view of this topic
Hop To:

Contact Us | Get the Whole Story! Go Home to SCARLETEEN: Sex Ed for the Real World | Privacy Statement

Copyright 1998, 2014 Heather Corinna/Scarleteen Providing comprehensive sex education online to teens and young adults worldwide since 1998

Information on this site is provided for educational purposes. It is not meant to and cannot substitute for advice or care provided by an in-person medical professional. The information contained herein is not meant to be used to diagnose or treat a health problem or disease, or for prescribing any medication. You should always consult your own healthcare provider if you have a health problem or medical condition.

Powered by UBB.classic™ 6.7.3