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Tullia95
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I ride and show horses on the paint horse circuit. I have a serious boyfriend and we have a very good sex life. But, it always seems like when he makes me come it's not really that good. But, I've found that when I show my horses I'll come right in the middle of riding and it feels amazing, but seems really embarrassing, like thats the last place I should come in my pants. I've tried recreating the same sensation but it doesn't work. Ive never told my boyfriend because it seems so embarrassing, but then I feel bad because we talk about literally everything. Just wondering if you have advice on how to fix my problem, if it's really all that weird, and what I could do to help my self. Thanks

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Robin Lee
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hi There Tullia95,

It's not at all unusual for people, particularly people with vulvas, to experience orgasm during exercise, and I'd say riding a horse is exercise, wouldn't you?

While I don't imagine you want it to be apparent to others during the show that you're experiencing orgasm, there's nothing wrong, bad, or naughty about the fact that you experience it.


So, knowing that, does the idea of telling your boyfriend about it feel any easier? We can certainly talk about ways for you to have that conversation with him.

I'm not really sure what you mean about what you can do to help yourself. Are you wondering, maybe, how to have orgasm feel better when you're with your boyfriend?

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Tullia95
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It helps a little. We both ride horses, but he doesn't have a vagina, so I'm not sure if he could quite understand, and I worry he'll just think it's flat out weird. As for help, I don't know what I could do during our own sex to help myself. Ive tried different positions while he touches me, but it's really hard for me to get there and when I do I mostly just feel tired from the work.

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