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I'm 19 and recently I've been messing around with this friend of mine. We've had sex a couple times and some foreplay, however I have been having a issue. Whenever we mess around I have problems keeping my erection and if I do keep it I can never get to that point to cum. The first night that we had sex we were going at it for around 2 hours and I never came close to cumming, and wearing a condom I can't keep it hard for more then a few minutes.

However, I have no issues masturbating. At first i thought my problem was just being worried about her father finding out but I feel comfortable now and am still having troubles. My only thought now is that it's because I'm not really attracted to her but I'm wondering if its something of a more serious matter. any help?

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It's really normal for social anxiety and just nervousness around a new partner to have this kind of impact.

However, you say you're not attracted to her, and that's likely part of the issue. Feeling chemistry with someone and attraction to them tends to be something we all need to feel earnestly aroused and reach orgasm.

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