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crossky
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Is anal sex uncomfortable for the girl? And I am not quite sure how to put on a condom or what size to choose?
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orca
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It will really depend on the girl whether or not she enjoys anal sex. That's definitely something you'll have to bring up with her and ask her about. As for condoms, we have a couple of really nifty articles, including one on how to pick out condoms and one on how to use a condom. If after reading those you still have questions, feel free to ask. [Smile]

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crossky
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It says that you have to pull back the foreskin a little bit if you are uncircumcised(I am) to put the condom on. When I am erect, it hurts a little bit when i pull back my foreskin over the head of my penis so i don't know what to do. Is there a way i can put it on without having to roll back my foreskin? Is it safer to be circumcised, because I am a little worried that I'm not? I'm thirteen and is it possible to get circumcised now? Is it normal that when i come, my muscles get really tense all over, then after i ejaculate they relax and i feel really good? btw i have almost no chest hair, but in my privates you know...there is quite a bit of hair? Can i shave the hair down there?
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Stephanie_1
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As Kayla and Abbie both explained to you here, you should not be experiencing pain when retracting the foreskin. You need to have that checked out by a doctor. (please do not repost the same question … it’s against the user agreements you signed upon registration for this site).

That said, being circumcised is really a lot more about personal preference than anything else. Reasons spanned greatly from the 1860’s claim of this as a cure for epilepsy through a 2003 claim (all of which since proven incorrect) that it prevents aids. In truth though, it’s not scientifically proven more or less healthy one way or the other.

Generally the operation is done when a baby because of the discomfort (since it is a surgical procedure) that can be caused by doing such a procedure later in life. Some older boys and men need to have a circumcision due to medical problems such as scarring of the foreskin that stops it from retracting (phimosis), recurrent inflammation or infections of the penis, a foreskin that is too tight and causes pain, or a very long foreskin that can cause discomfort. The best thing for you to do is really to speak with a doctor if you’re concerned. They would be able to tell you more than we could after they do an examination.

As for the hair, could you shave it – well you can… but it’s actually much easier to learn to love who you are than try to worry about changing it. People as mammals are hairy creatures naturally, so having hair there – or anywhere really is very normal.

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crossky
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Ok thank you. Sorry for posting the same question. I didn't know i wasn't supposed to do that.
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