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Stephanie101
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I am a 14 year old girl, and I think about sex ALL THE TIME, like when I am around my crush I like want him in my pants RIGHT THEN! like I dont know if there is something wrong with me or what! I even have dreams about having sex with him and like celebrities. I constantly have like urges to JUMP ON SOMEONE! Of course I have morals so I wont, but it doesnt stop the fact that I want to! its really weird..I dont know why all of the sudden I just want like sex all the time! I am a virgin I shouldnt think this way!

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Really, there's no such thing as should and shouldn't...
I probably didn't have such intense sexual feelings until I was about 15, but yeah, that doesn't mean I didn't have them, or still have them.
And being a virgin, that doesn't really have influence over your thoughts. I'm 18, and sometimes I sit in class just thinking about sex all day... I've had teachers ask me if I was paying attention! But I'm also a virgin.. it's totally and completely normal to have these feelings.
And especially, when you start going through puberty, I can understand how it might be a little bit of a shock, but still completely normal.

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Ya, this just started like a week ago, I am turning 15 in july, but still I dont know why jsut one night when me and erich were sitting on my bed watching family and I just like had a weird feeling and wanted to start rubbing his crotch area for no reason!

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Sounds pretty normal to me!
And I wouldn't say that it's sick minded at all, let alone too sick minded.

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i believe we all have these urges, it's up to a mind to control it. i dont thing it's bad or "sick". i have this problem too but i just make the best use of it in a right way with my bf. i am not an expert in psycology but for a 14 yr old female, it's 100% normal and happy news about of proper development of puberty.
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Dude, I think it's great. I feel like I think about sex all the time as well - on the train, in class, jogging, in long breaks in conversation. I also have these awesome dreams...Anyway. I think that, if society believes that it's normal for guys to think about sex all the time, then it's ok for girls to think about it as well. We're all human. And thinking about sex is fun. Enjoy it [Wink]
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just to add to what timtam said, it's not a good idea to let this effect your social life. some guys do think about sex all times and they fail miserably in keeping their urges from taking control of their behaviour.
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I feel the same way. I have a boyfriend and we are active. But sometimes I just go crazy in class with urges. And I would never cheat or be disloyal. I suppose its only puberty. (Im 17)
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[ 05-01-2008, 03:02 AM: Message edited by: Lastonestanding. ]

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