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[ 01-12-2014, 11:56 AM: Message edited by: mlmb96 ]

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Hi mlmb96! Welcome to Scarleteen! [Smile]

Virginity is a very personal concept that can be different for everyone. If your boyfriend wants to think he is a virgin then, he gets to do that. Of course, you get to have whatever feelings around this, and even decide if you want to continue with this relationship or not.

You said you think he is not over her yet. Have you talked with him about this? If so, how did that talk went?

I cannot tell you if you should forget or not about him not using protection, as I already said you get to feel the way you do, and you are the expert on what things matter to you and what things don't. I think that maybe the best next step is to have a talk with him, letting him know how you feel. Do you think that's something that you would like to do?

(btw, when we are talking about testing, is always better if we not use words like "clean". Having an STI doesn't mean someone is "dirty". We can always use words like "negative" or "clear".) [Smile]

[ 01-13-2014, 12:00 AM: Message edited by: Edith_* ]

"Whatever you do will be insignificant, but it's very important that you do it " (...'cause no one else will) -Gandhi-

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