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I had this urge today to stick my finger in my anus hole is this okay? I thought it would be pleasuring but did not want to do it without you saying it's okay (please note i would do it in front of a mirror so i can actually see what i'm doing)
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Well I don't see any problem with this as long as it's done safely.

You have to make sure your fingernails are not too long because anal tissu is pretty sensitive. It would also be wise to maybe use lubricant since the anus doesn't produce lubrication as the vagina does.

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Thanks although I am a guy (lol)
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Yeah, that's why I did not say ''as your vagina does'' but said '' as the vagina does'', in order you were a male. [Big Grin]

Being a male doesn't make you less qualify to understand what vaginal lubrication is, so I tought it was a proper example to give as much to a male as to a female. [Smile]

[ 01-21-2007, 03:26 PM: Message edited by: cool87 ]

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I would actually recommend using latex gloves, as well as the lube-- these will reduce the risk of jagged edges and contamination from your fingernails, as well as providing less friction than your bare skin. Also, whether you use the gloves or not, make sure you wash your hands thoroughly afterwards.
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(Ah. Thanks Beppie. I should have suggested gloves too. My mistake, sorry.)

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By the way - don't stick anything else in there that isn't designed for it (i.e. has a flared base). You do not want to lose anything inside there, as that will result in a very embarassing visit to A&E! (Accident & Emergency - the UK equivalent to the ER / Emergency Room)

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Is a pen with a smooth end ok? I really can't keep gloves and lube around my room.
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"Is a pen with a smooth end ok?"

Read my post above - never stick anything in there that could potentially slip inside - you will NOT be able to retrieve it, and will have to go to ER.

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What would you suggest then, other than a gloved hand?
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Really, anything you can't put a condom over and some lubricant on, you're really NOT going to want to stick in your rectum. Rectal tissue is VERY sensitive, and without the use of a condom/glove you're also running big risks of infection and further discomfort.

Plus, we never recomend that you use any common household objects, as chances are good another member of your household may need to use it at somepoint, and that's just not very respectful.

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What you want is a sex toy (Vibrator/Dildo) with a base that's bigger than the rest of it. Or a specially designed Butt Plug (these have flanged bases).

While we're on this subject, the colon above the anus is A - Insensitive to pain, and B - takes a right angle turn above the anus. For this reason never slide excessively long objects inside your anus - serious injury could result.

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I can't really store that stuff in my room though, not to mention buying it. I don't know what my parents would think. Anything I could substitute, or should I just get some latex gloves next time I am at the doctors office?
Also. thanks for the tip about the long objects

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There's really nothing you can safely substitute, no. So, next time you're at your doctor's, if they're okay with you taking some leatex gloves, go ahead and ask. And in the meantime you may just want to hold off until you are able to find somewhere to safely store some gloves and/or condoms and a small bottle of lubricant.

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Any suggestions on how to get lube?
This will be so much easier pnce I move out

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I don't know about the USA, but over here (UK) you can pick up KY Jelly (a water based lubricant) in any pharmacy or supermarket.

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Yep, the US is the same way - you can pick up condoms and lubricant in any grocery store or pharmacy. And a good bottle of lubricant will last you a long time. [Smile]

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