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I have a gorgeous girlfriend whos 19 but she won't let me feel or see her breasts. this is driving me crazy as i've never seen any since i was a child and want to know what they'd feel like. do different size breasts feel different? And when a girls this age are breasts pert or is it the bra done up tightly that makes them look so attractive?
I really want to know as they're forbidden and unknown so I can't stop thinking about them.
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You need to respect your girlfriend's boundaries. It seems like you aren't really sure why your girlfriend has these boundaries-- have you asked her? The situation could be quite different if, say, she has religious reasons for not wanting to engage in partnered sexual activity, or if she is battling with issues of insecurity (or there could be another reason altogether).
Whatever her reason is, you need to respect that she is not ready to engage in these activities with you yet. If it is a matter of personal beliefs about sexual boundaries. If it is something else, about insecurities that she might be dealing with, then you need to be willing to help her through those issues for herself, rather than with one ulterior motive in mind.
I can answer a couple of your questions though-- as you suspect, different women's breasts are all different, and thus they feel different. These differences still occur in girls of the same age-- some women never need a bra to have pert breasts, some women have breasts that will hang fairly low during their teens. As such, there is no intrinsic way that a breast "feels"-- everyone is different.
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Thanks. I know she has her reasons and i want to respect them.
But... what do they feel like? Are A/B sizes like an orange to touch and larger ones getting on for mousse due to the extra fat? Not that I can tell breast sizes either ;-)
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You need to read ALL of Beppie's post. There is no way for us to answer this question, because as she stated "there is no intrinsic way that a breast "feels"-- everyone is different."
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An orange? Mousse? Hmm... I don't know if I like my breasts being compared to food products. And really, breasts are just breasts. They have their variances in size, shape, and feel. So you can't say specifically what they feel like because everyones are different.
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generally, breasts feel like fat, because that is what they are made of. so if you have some fat anywhere on your body, feel it, and that's basically how boobs feel. sorry, not that exciting... Posts: 5 | From: California | Registered: Oct 2005
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Keep on remembering people, that all breasts are different and thus they all feel different. One person's experience may differ from another's.
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