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Cheese_butty
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Me and my boyfriend have been dating for just over 3 months and we decided recently that we were ready to take it to the next level sexually. I am a virgin so it was important to me that he was right for me but the first time we tried it was just too painful so we decided to leave it a bit and get some lubricant but it was still to painful, it felt like there wasnt even anywhere to put it? Hes not a virgin so its not as if he doesnt know what to do and hes not overly big either (not small though). What is wrong with me?
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JamsessionVT
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The vagina is built to stretch. If it can hold up after a baby coming through, it can take any size penis.

Nothing is wrong with you. Many young women do not have a pleasurable experience with their first intercourse. In fact, it can be very disappointing for many ladies.

I suggest you take a look at these, maybe they'll answer some of your question:

http://www.scarleteen.com/sexuality/readiness.html
http://www.scarleteen.com/body/female_anatomy.html


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bluefreak44
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I recently got married and we were both virgins until our wedding night.

We got married almost a month ago and r STILL trying to work things out. It didn't help that my birth control threw my period off whack, making it almost two weeks long, so there was a lot of "lost time" there.

We just figure, "What's the rush?" Things r becoming less painful, and since we're taking it slowly I'm not dreading doing it again or anything.

I just wanted to add that I'm barely over 5 feet tall, while he's over 6 feet tall and weighs at least twice as much as me. I know it has been said that a guy's overall size doesn't necessarily determine other things, but it's pretty much a given that he's bigger than I....

Also, I've never even used tampons. My first pap test was short but pretty miserable. So most ppl prolly don't have as much to work thru...didn't wanna scare ya.

[This message has been edited by bluefreak44 (edited 07-24-2005).]


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