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LovinAmbs
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Hey everyone, i hardly ever post here and now i need some good advice. I am currently in a relationship with a great girl. My friends are pressuring me to "try stuff" with her but i dont think i am quite ready for anything past really just kissing. I told them i would make the mature decision, after all i am only 13. Back to my point, this is my first serious relationship and we ahve been together for close to 5 months now which is pretty good for people our age. But my problem is i dont know how girls want to be kissed. I know everyone is different but i would really like it if some girls could e-mail me @ my e-mail,******edtited because posting one's email address is against posting guidelines******, and give me some quick suggestions. I dont come here much, only when i know i have a problem so please e-mail me instead of replying. Thanks so so much if you help me out.
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[This message has been edited by bettie (edited 04-05-2001).]


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CallMeBuffChick
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Why don't you just ask her and then you'll know how she wants to be kissed. Because she might not like the way I like to be kissed or any other girl. It's personal peference.

As for your friends tell them to bug off. It's your life and not theirs.

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LovinAmbs
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i was thinking of that, but its just like so dang hard. ya know what i mean? its like i am embarrased or sumthin, i know i shouldnt be but i am. Its just one of those things, i think everyone knows what i mean.
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CallMeBuffChick
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A 5 month relationship and your embarrased to ask her how she likes to kiss? Don't feel silly about it.
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Bobolink
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She would probably be amazed and thrilled that you cared to ask.

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Lin
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Well honey, chances are she isn't going to burst out laughing in your face.

Just tell her honestly you would like to know how she wants to be kissed and if she is too shy to tell you, she could always show you.

Take a deep breath and go for it sweetie. I'm a girl and I would love it if my bf said that to me.


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LovinAmbs
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Well after getting a few replys i guess i know what i gotta do. I think i can get enough courage to ask her, and i think it would be alot easier if she showed me,lol. But thank you for your advice and i will post again and tell you if it worked out ok or not.
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Gumdrop Girl
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y'know what? if a guy asked me (under the proper circumstances -- i'm not talking about a drooling idiot atsome club, but anyway...) how i liked to be kissed, i'd think it was the cutest thing.

boy: so, uhh ... i think you're cute, and i want to kiss you.
me: aww, that's sweet
boy: how exactly should i kiss you, then?
me: like this... (you take it from here )

aww, c'mon, if you saw that in a movie, wouldn't you think it was cute, too? there's no way anybody could not find something like that endearing.

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LovinAmbs
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well i guess it dont matter 2 much now, she dumped me 2day.
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Jessie
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aawww...i'm sorry!

her loss!


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Lin
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Oh honey, *big hugs*

And Jessie is right, it's her loss.


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cutiepie12340
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aww that sux! all that and she dumped ya, i can still reply, right??! lol. i know that if i had a boyfriend (im 13, 2) id think it was just darn sweet if he asked me how id like to b kissed!!!!!! aww thats just so nice, too nice to get over. how sweet! :9
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