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Swarchbuckey
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Hello!
First of all this gonna be a long text so thank you for reading it!And sorry for my english grammar im learning it [Smile]
I'm a 18 year old boy and i had an open personality and i was harmony with myself until now.
Let's start it back when i first get contact with sexualtity. I always liked the girls and disliked man at sexual ways. When i watched porn a was like eww penis and don't like that so i watched lesbian porn only. Then I noticed they haveing fun so I tried to finger myself just they did in the porn and I liked it. I felt a little bit strange but nothing special. Then I thought about to watch gay porn and I was like it's okay but something were missing. And then I found bisexual porn, and I felt satisfied about it. I really liked and only watched that. Then the timed passed by and I noticed some things about myself i fantasied about a threesome with a girl and a boy and myself in it. Then in public I started to stare at other pepole asses regardless of gender, and I felt to kiss boys on the cheek just randomly. But I couldn't imagine myself in a relationship with boys only in sexual ways. On the other hand I'm feeling the same with girls as far as I remember.
And then I started to ask myself am I bisexual so I searched for bisexual quizes on the internet. Most said that I'm bisexual some said that im bi-curious but I dont't know what am I. Could you please help me?

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Robin Lee
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Hello Swarchbuckey and welcome to Scarleteen,

There's really no way anyone but you can know what your sexual orientation is--that is, whether you're bisexual, heterosexual, homosexual, or something else. Those quizzes on the Internet can't tell you either.


It's also okay if you aren't able to figure it out right away. It takes some people a while to figure out what their orientation is, and for some people, what and who they're attracted to changes over time.

I'm going to give you a couple of articles to read about sexual orientation that might help give you a little more perspective on this.


Bi the Dozen: A Bisexuality Quiz

The Bees and...the Bees: A Homosexuality and Bisexuality Primer

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Swarchbuckey
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Thank you so much!
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Robin Lee
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You're welcome.

If you have more questions or want to talk any of this through more aftter reading those pieces, please come on back. [Smile]

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