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hey im 16 years old and i go to a all girls school. i have a crush on this girl at school. she's in yr 10 this year and im in 11. i first met her at the canteen. i was with my best friend and we were like talking and stuff. i realised that she was staring at me and so i stared at her while i was talking to my friend. and then i started to like her. my parents then had to go overseas for some reason. so i had to take the bus. i took the bus with some of my other friends and that was my first time taking that bus. i then saw her get on the same bus as me. we got in the bus. she was with her friends and i was with mine. i then glanced at her and she glanced at me. then her friend was talking to her and i think both looked at me. then her friend went back talking to some other friend. then the girl i liked looked at me and kinda smiled. im not sure what her and her friend talked about me. but at that time i thought they were laughing at me for some reason. i darno. i love her now and i don't know what to do with all of these feelings. i tried to express them with writing poetry but it doesnt seem to work. i told my friend that i had a crush on this girl and by the way she knows im bi. she told me to be confident and talk to her but im a shy person and i dont know where to start. can u please tell me what to do? like how do i talk to her? i want to be friends with her. and how do you know if a girl likes you?

thank you for reading this. please tell me what to do because im so lost and im going to school soon

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Well, first thing you're going to want to do is have a small reality check.

You can't actually love someone without knowing them pretty darn well. You can certainly have a crush on them, but loving them just via seeing what they look like and not even having a conversation yet? Not so much. Love develops between people who become quite close over time.

Per talking to her? Just walk up and say hello. Really, tht's the best place to start. per knowing how "a girl likes you?" Really, again, that's something you'l likely know over time, no matter someones gender, as liking someone is about more than how they look.

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