ok i have a boyfriend and i really care about him alot.Pretty soon it's going to make 2 months that we have been going out.I have a real good friend and i think im starting to like him and i think he likes me. He knows i got a bf because they talk to each other sometimes. Everybody at school thinks me and my friend go out and they say we should. My bf acts so chidish and he takes every thing as a joke. My friend is real sweet. I dont know what to do cuz i dont want 2 hurt my bf. But i cant help and feel that im cheating with my friend cuz we flirt back and forth. My bf even tell me that he is always talking about me. And i defintly always talk about him. I dont know what 2 do , can somebody help me?
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It seems to me that you favor your friend over your boyfriend. Re-read what you posted and see how you didn't mention any good qualities about your boyfriend. So why are you going out with him? You flirting with your friend probably makes your boyfriend feel insecure and upset. If you'd rather have a relationship with your friend you need to be honest with your boyfriend and tell him your relationship needs to end. Of course you want to be happy but remember other people's feelings are on the line as well. If you chose to stay with your boyfriend you need to back off your friend and tell your friend to do the same.
Posts: 12 | From: Los Angeles, CA, USA | Registered: Dec 2005
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