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iron serenity
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Okay, I'm 16 and have been bi for about a year. Here recently I have been questioning whether or not I am lesbian. My question is I ave this guy that wants to be with me. Should I get with him, or should I worry about whether or not i'm a lesbian?

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logic_grrl
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The obvious questions here are:

Are you attracted to this particular guy?

And do you want to have a relationship with him?

If the answer to either (or both) of those is "no", then it's not going to be a good idea to get together with him.

And if the answer to both is "yes", then it sounds like a relationship is worth considering.

You don't have to decide your orientation before you can decide whether or not you want to be involved with a particular person.

(In fact, it's observing the gender of the people you want to be involved with that will generally tell you about your orientation ).


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iron serenity
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Thanks a bunch. I think i'm going to get to know him a little more and then persue it. I'll keep everyone updated on how things are going.
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