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ladydexter
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I sent you an email, but, is there anything you can do about Yamauta? I don't want to be involved with him any more, and I don't want him coming on here stalking me and/or saying nasty things.
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Heather
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I emailed back.

I'll take care of issues with his access here, and you and I will work together to have him held as reponsible as possible.

I got your back, gal. No worries. [Smile]

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ladydexter
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Thank you for everything, Heather. I appreciate it.
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Heather
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It is absolutely no problem.

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ladydexter
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I'd also like to thank everyone who was worried about me, even though they didn't post, it means a lot to me and it helps a lot to know that people care, even complete strangers on a message board.

Thank you all. [Smile]

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I just wanted to say I'm sorry for ALL of this crap that's happened, and I'm glad you're sticking around despite this. I'd be really sad to see you go.. you've been so helpful around here.

*e-hug*

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ladydexter
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Apparently I didn't block the toad on every messenger, because I woke up this morning to this treat:

(09:22:48) Duo: read it, saw it, tried to contest and found myself blocked. Not going to worry about it. If something happens I'll deal with it, I found that even under No Lo Contendre on a self-report, a minor magnitude offence will not be prosecuted, especially with the lack of any proof whatso ever, and the fact that the DA has heard cases like this before and had them thrown out of court.
(09:23:24) Duo: Because Heather IS right... society has a problem regarding what constitutes sexual assault.
(09:23:52) Duo: but that's not something I can change. I'll leave that to her and wish her luck on her work. She's doing a wonderful thing.

I HATE rapists. I hate them even more when they gloat about something they know nothing about.

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September
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I'm so, so sorry, LadyDexter. Good on you for just not communicating with him, though. Talking to rapists is absolutely pointless because they will not be reasoned with. All it does is hurt us even more.

*big hugs*

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ladydexter
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Thanks, September. He's certainly trying all methods to get messages to me, including telling my brother to tell me things (my brother told him where to go, he he).

*hugs back* I'll get through this. Done it once, I can do it again.

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Just wanted to pop in and give you my sympathy too LadyDexter. I'm really sorry for what you have to go through right now and have gone though. No one deserves that, never, never.

I don't doubt one moment you will be able to get through all of this. I know you're strong and will be able to with time. That is one big thing that amazes me about you : how strong you seem to be after all of this. It is really great to see.

We're all here to support you. Hang on ! You'll get through this.

*Hugs*

[ 04-28-2007, 09:30 AM: Message edited by: cool87 ]

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