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curiousgeorgex3
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on February the 23rd, i started my period. my cycle usually runs 28 days, i keep track of it. fairly on time and regular. on the 2nd on of march, rougly 2 days since i got off, i had sex. with a condom. the only worry im having is what we did before. he died to put it in without one..which did not work. i then somewhat sat on it (didnt even make it down the shaft completely without changing our minds and deciding to use a condom) and proceeded to use a condom. this was the first time i engaged in ANY sexual contact since november. and i am cramping severely and this wasnt 'random' sex. ive known him for years and we are extremley close. i am already scheduling a psmear and all that for check ups..but should i be worried aobut pregnancy? he did not finish in me.

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Heather
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Hey there, curiousgeorge: can you please go here first: http://www.scarleteen.com/forum/ultimatebb.php?/ubb/get_topic/f/27/t/028349.html

Please also keep in mind our policy with users per pregnancy scares, where after we've counseled someone through three or more -- which we have with you -- we insist on changing the conversation and not doing that anymore, particularly if someone hasn't changed any of the behaviors or issues that keep landing them in scares.

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curiousgeorgex3
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i stopped having se from november to now.. ive read that page and even alled an obgyn. thought you all could help. i guess not. ill stop referring people here then.

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Heather
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Well, as you can see from that link, we're setting some limits here to better help users and manage the service. I'd hope our users can respect that and communicate about any issues that might present for them without becoming passive-aggressive.

And I'm sure that if you do, in fact, want to find a way to both respect our limits and find what you need, you can probably figure out a way to talk with us about that respectfully and in a way that actually supports good communication. Particularly given all of the help, support, time and respectful interaction we have given you in the past.

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