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MiikiieBabiie
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we was having sex and obviously he ejaculated and he ejaculated in my mouth, and i was giving him oral sex for a few seconds maybe a min or 2 then he didnt wipe him self or nothing he just put it back inside me and we had sex again. he wasnt wearin any protection what so ever, and he was abit drunk but i asked him and he said he is sure he didnt ejaculate inside me. then after that it happen again (basically twice) he ejaculated again in my mouth and then we got dressed and we was just talking and then we was at it again. im really scared, could i get pregnant from this. how likely is it? and how soon can i have an abortion? [Confused]

im body has also been acting wierd latley we had sex on 23/24 june, that was last week, and since that night i have been goin to the toilet alot i need to wee all the time. latley im starting to feel abit dizzy and for the past 3-4 night i feel sick but i dont actually throw up, i also get really really bad belly pains and back pains. my period is due on the 10th this month and im start to get some spots so i might be commin on soon or i might be pregnant im so scared...

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[ 07-03-2012, 06:56 PM: Message edited by: MiikiieBabiie ]

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You are not likely to be showing any sign of pregnancy this early unless you were pregnant before but I've heard weirder things. It is definantly possible for you to get pregnant from what you described, especially because he can pre-nut in between ejaculations. The best way to find out would be to see if you have your period and then check again next month. Since the sex was so recent you may not miss your period at first even if you are pregnant but pay attention to if its lighter or shorter than normal. If you miss your next one, take a pregnancy test.

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MiikiieBabiie
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ok, but wouldnt that be to late.. i mean isnt it better to have an abortion as soon as possible??
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MiikiieBabiie, can you read this please? http://www.scarleteen.com/forum/ultimatebb.php?/ubb/get_topic/f/10/t/002451.html

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MiikiieBabiie, pregnancy tests are accurate 14 days after a risk. So, from the date you gave here, you can take a test on 8th July and trust the result.

Beababygurl, it's not possible to have a period during pregnancy. A small number of people may have some bleeding in pregnancy, but the chances of this bleeding being at the same time as an expected period, being the same sort of amount as a period, lasting the same time as a period, and looking the same as a period, are really very small.

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MiikiieBabiie
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yes i know, i have done my dates but im am very scared the more days go by the more i feel like im pregnant and the signs and symptoms start matching up. do u think i should wait to see if my period comes on the 10th and if it doesn't then do a test on the 11th? or shell i just do a test on the 8th?

having a period though pregnancy is very possible as my step mum was on her period for the first 3 months of her pregnancy when she had my step brother.

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Having a period during pregnancy is impossible as a period is the shedding of the uterine lining. This is what the egg attached itself to, if it sheds away then there is nowhere for the egg and developing fetus to go (although this early it wouldn't even be a fetus, just a cluster of cells). It is on the other hand possible for a person to have light bleeding during their pregnancy, but this is not a period.

You can test whenever you see fit, if you're comfortable waiting until the tenth then by all means do so.

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MiikiieBabiie
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but this is what i am asking? what is better to wait till the 10th or have one on the 8th?

and how qucik can you get an abortion?
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HI MiikiieBabiie,

As the link that Karybu gave you indicates, right now we need for people to make their own assessments of pregnancy risks and their own decisions about when to test, based on the information we've provided.

As the information says, a pregnancy test is accurate 14 or more days after a pregnancy risk, or when a period is late, whichever comes first.

Whenever you decide to test, and if the test shows that you are pregnat, we can talk with you about what your next steps are, including how to access abortion if that's something you choose to do.

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MiikiieBabiie
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thank you! [Smile] x
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Ye I know its not a real period but a lot of women do bleed so they assume its their period. I don't know why but I know it happens. Its happened to every woman in my family including me.

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