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Josh18
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Hi I'm a bit of a hypochondriac and I was wondering if you can get someone pregnant If after receiving oral sex and having the girl swallow, she then dry humps you like 5-10 minutes later with her wearing track pants and panties but you with no pants or boxers on until she orgasms? I know its a silly question but any help would be greatly appreciated thanks:-)
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In order for pregnancy to happen you need direct semen-vulva/vagina contact. The digestive tract is not connected to the reproductive organs in any way, so no, this does not pose a pregnancy risk.

Check out this article about how pregnancy does happen:
Where DID I Come From? A Refresher Course in Human Reproduction

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Josh18
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No I know that can't happen but I was thinking more in like I guess the term post cum getting through the clothing during the rubbing against eachother afterwards??thanks again:)

[ 01-09-2012, 03:23 PM: Message edited by: Josh18 ]

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Josh18
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Because i have read on here that sperm needs to travel with the semen to get where it needs to go so I'm just wondering if the same applies to post cum not being able to make it through the track pants and panties aswell???
This site is so informative its awesome thanks again!

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Sperm is sperm, whether it's before, after or during ejaculation. Nothing you have described here poses a pregnancy risk.

And your welcome, I'm glad you are finding it helpful. [Smile]

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Josh18
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Thank you again for putting my mind to ease knowing that the little guys cant make it through clothing lol :-)!
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Ok so just an update here if you could help? I had that bj and dryhump on the 19th of december and she had full on unprotected sex with another guy on the 24th of december she missed her period on the 3rd of January and she is pregnant now with what she says is this guys kid 100 percent? Is that true do you think? Like with what ive said this is 100 percent not me right?
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The situation you described did not pose a pregnancy risk. So if she is indeed pregnant now, it's not from you.

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Josh18
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Ok ya it just freaked me out when she said that but as long as you cant get pregnant the way i said then thats all good:)
I mean she even told me its defs not mine but its always good to make sure you know?

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Yep. Did you ever read the article Kat linked you to in her first response? If not, I suggest you do that. It may help calm you down, too.

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Josh18
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Yes it was very informative thank you!
and well now she says she thinks it might be mine shes flip flopping back and forth and im like theres no way at all its mine but your sure with what I did nothing could have happened right?Im sorry its just im freaking out!Like how quickly would a positive test show up?

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A positive test would show up if she is indeed pregnant. (The likelyhood of a false positive test is very minimal, but could occur, so if she's unsure she can take another test). She cannot have gotten pregnant from the scenario posted above, so if she is pregnant it is from some other situation which *did* pose a risk.

EDIT: By scenario above I mean the one involving you. The scenario involving unprotected sex absolutely did pose a risk and is quite likely when she became pregnant.

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Ok you had me worried there when you said from my situation that you could get pregnant but i reread it and it makes sense now.

Because ya i've been reading on here that you cant get pregnant through clothing basically what would have had to have happened would have to be after the oral and her swallowing then waiting 10 minutes my post cum( if there even was any.Which there was no wetness on me or her because i asked her)would have had to have gone through the initial trackpant layer through the inside material and then through her panties up into her cervix correct?

Which would be an immaculate conception right?She went to her dr. and the dr said the same thing to her and that its definately from the unprotected sex she had 4 days after me as it cant happen in my situation?

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Yep, there's no way it can happen in your situation. Sperm cells are way too delicate to get through two layers of clothing.

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Ok thanks that's a relief to know it can't be mine thank you [Smile]
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