I had sex today, twice. Sorry about the info. We did use a condom on both occasions. We only lasted about 10 minutes, maybe even less because it was hurting me. He never 'came' on both occasions. We used a Trojan condom, and afterwards I filled them up with water to make sure it had no holes and it was fine. They both looked fine. Yesterday I ended my period. Is this bad? Is there a higher chance of becoming pregnant if I ended my period yesterday? Please help. Thanks.
Karina, we have a three-strikes-rule here on Scarleteen. That means that if a user asks similar questions about pregnancy risks more than three times, we cannot give further answers. We have addressed several pregnancy risk questions for you and given you links to articles to help you assess pregnancy risks, as well as articles on protecting yourself. There is nothing further we can do for you. Obviously, our assurances are not making you feel any better.
If you'd like, we can talk about how you can manage the anxiety you are experiencing. Are you anxious in other areas of your life, as well, or is this solely around pregnancy risks? If it is only about pregnancy risk, do you want to talk about whether you're ready yet for this level of sexual activity?
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