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robinajk
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First Kiss-15
Manual-16
Oral-17
Intercourse-Hasn't happened yet.

I've been dating my boyfriend for almost a year now. He's my first real boyfriend so everything that's happened, except for my first lame kiss lol, has been with him.

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First orgasm: 17 (self-sex)
First kiss: 19
Anything else: Not yet.

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well for me it was at fifteen, almost sixteen. For first kiss/manual, but sixteen for oral. All of it was with my boyfriend who I am still with now, he's the only person Ive ever done stuff with.
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First kiss: 12/13
Oral sex: 15
Manual: 15

umm some people have said they have had intercourse before oral! Find this a bit weird or maybe its just me lol!

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I had sex for the first time when I was 16 with my first real boyfriend, (who I'm still with now) at the time there were a couple regrets, but it felt right to me, it was my friends who didn't agree. Every other first sexual activity was around the same time with him too. The only thing I do regret is my first kiss, it was sloppy and I was somewhat drunk, *sigh* stupid stupid 15 year old me.

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By the way, liverpoolfc, there's no particular order in which you "should" proceed from one sexual activity to another. It's just whatever both partners are comfortable with at the time, and if they're both comfortable with intercourse, but maybe one of them isn't comfortable with oral sex, then that's perfectly okay.

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First

Orgasm: A long long time ago (Maybe around 11? I don't remember)

Kiss: 14

Manual: 14

Shared Orgasm: 15

Oral: 15

Intercourse: a few weeks ago (17)

All my first times have been with the same girl...

No regrets on any of that.

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18 (im 18 now)

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Is this my life cause it happened so fast? Is this the bed I chose to make? Is this the girl I want to be? All I want is the wind in my hair, to face the fear but not feel scared.

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oral sex and manual: both 14.

& no regrets.

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I was 17 (1 month away from 18th birthday) when I had sex for the first time. I'm 19 now and we are still together.

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First kiss: 5-6
First orgasm: Same
Oral sex: 15 (not safe)
Manual: 16
Intercourse: 17 (not safe)

The oral sex I had wasn't safe because I didn't know the real risks involved with giving oral sex at that time.

The intercourse I had wasn't safe because I didn't stand up for myself condom-wise when I wanted to, pretty much.

[ 02-21-2007, 09:24 AM: Message edited by: RedGoddess ]

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First kiss - 18 (hs sweetheart)
Manual - 20 (college sweetie)
oral - 21 (college sweetie)
intercourse - July 14, 2007...getting married!!!! My college sweetie and I have vowed to wait until we are married..I can't wait!

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First Kiss - 17 (1st boyfriend)
Manual - 17 (1st boyfriend)
intercourse - 21 (1st and still my current boyfriend! lol)

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Kiss - 14
Manual (from boyfriend now) - 15
Oral (from boyfriend now) - 15
Intercourse (also from boyfriend now) - 17

**My boyfriend and I have been dating for 3 years, and we waited 2 1/2 before we had sex and I don't regret it at all. I actually am proud we waited so long. [Big Grin]

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first kiss: 6
first manual:18 (current bf)
first oral:18 (current bf)
first intercourse:18 (current bf)
first bf: 13 (he was 17)

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First online bf: 14
First "real-life" bf: 15
First kiss (closed-mouth): 15
First kiss (tongues): 16
First manual: 17
First oral: not yet....I don't like the idea, so hopefully not for many more years
First intercourse: Not yet, though it may happen before 2007 ends

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Tetris
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Everything at 16.

Really, DON'T GO BY THESE AGES TO DECIDE IF YOU ARE READY. I thought I was. I have nightmares about my first time having sex, and that was 2 years ago, like 3 times a week where I wake up crying. Like all of them were with the same guy and I'm still dating him and we both regret it a lot and yes, we still do it but he feels terrible about the 1st time when I told him how much it hurt me emotionally. It just caused pain all over.

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First Kiss tongues- 11/12
Manual-At 11/12 i didnt really think about this so i never got up to it.
Oral-Same
Intercourse-well im not givin my virginity up until im quite a bit older(not to old)

I pulled somone when i was in 5th grade which didnt really meen that much to me, and still doesn't,is there supposed to be a real fuss over first kiss?
Any way with the nextgirl friend i had we were good friends, and still are but we pulled about 4 times(the first 3hours after going out -.-) but we broke up about a week later. We are even better friends now but we both know i'm into her best m8 who,im told is rejecting me so she doesnt look like a whore after dumping her previous Bf, but im now so sure...

Well im 13 now lol and thats my love life so far,not that intresting really. I'm still wanting my x's best m8 and might get her soon, we might even go into doing manual at 14, i wish lol.

[ 04-01-2007, 04:49 PM: Message edited by: Guiltygard ]

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I'm seventeen, I've done absolutely nothing in this field, and I don't plan to. May change my mind later in life, but I doubt it. By my own choice, not pressure or abstinence-only junk or anything. Just want to point out that that isn't unusual, just in case anyone's worried that they're "behind" or something.
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Let me think...

Manual - 16. It was with a guy who was my best friend and we were just sort of messing around. A few regrets on my end, but only because later he decided that he didn't view me sexually and we haven't talked since.

Oral (giving)- 17. A week before my eighteenth, I started going out with a girl I'd had an eye on for a while. We gave each other manual, then I decided to try something different on her. No regrets. We decided it didn't work out after a about three weeks.

Oral (receiving) - 18. Same girl, different time, definetly no regrets.

Intercourse - 18. Went out with a guy who is now my current boyfriend of five months, and waited until we had been going out for three and I was on suitable contraception (we also used a condom). No regrets. It wasn't fantastic, but it was better than I was expecting.

Also, liverpoolfc? My best friend had intercourse long before she got up the courage to give her boyfriend oral. She said that it was only when she understood that it wasn't all that scary could she put it in her mouth.

For a long time, I thought I was an exception to this apparent 'rule' (I don't have many RL friends and she's the only one I speak openly to about our relationships) - simply because I've always had somewhat of an oral fixation and an almost obsession to taste anything that I'd never tried before and knew not to be explictily poisonous...

Anyway, sorry if that's TMI. I get kind of carried away...

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Kiss: well my first like full fledged kiss was 12
Manual:13
Oral:14
Intercourse:Not yet I'm only 14! lol

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Kiss: I'd been kissed against my wishes earlier :/ didn't actually have a consensual kiss til I was with my current bf. So 20~ much later than everyone else on this thread lol ^^;

Manual: 20, with current bf.

Oral: haven't yet.

Intercourse: 20.

liverpoolfc~ may seem strange to some ^^ but, there is no order which people are required to conform to for these activities, and some people choose not to have oral sex at all [Smile]

RealityIsTough~ It's not about age, being ready. [Smile] It's about how comfortable you feel with your boyfriend/girlfriend, how comfortable you feel about doing those things with them. It's natural to be a bit apprehensive, but if you can tick all/most of the boxes on the readiness checklist, that's a good start. Talking to your partner about it definitely helps a lot, too.

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First Kiss--15--One month after my fiance and i started dating
First Kiss (Open mouth)--15--one month after my first kiss
Manual (outside of clothes)--15--four months into dating
Manual (inside clothes [Razz] )--15--6 months into dating
Oral (on him)--15--7 months into dating
Oral (on me)--15--8 months into dating
Intercourse--16--1 year into dating
I did have regrets about having sex but now i actually am glad i did. I love him more than anything. We are going to get married once we have our lives started (have money and out of University). Now, I know that you really just wanted to hear from other people's experiences which is fine but just know, make sure you trust the guy more than anything. If you do have sex, make sure it's special. Mine wasn't and my fiance knew that i thought it wasnt that special so he decided to give me a "do-over" when he set everything up perfectly, made it really romantic. I wish you all the best.

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[ 06-30-2008, 06:16 PM: Message edited by: Jase Watson ]

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first kiss: 14
first manual: 14
first oral: 15
first intercourse: 16

I kissed, fingered, licked my ex and regreted it because she turned out to be someone completely different than I thought she was when I met her. Have done all to my current parnter, not a single regret [Smile]

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First kiss - 12
First oral - 16
First oral (with my consent) - 17
First manual - 17
First intercourse - 17

I still count the oral I got when I was sixteen as my first, even though there was not consent on my part. It wasn't until I had matured, had found Scarleteen, and had gotten some distance from the relationship in question that i realized lack of consent is a very bad thing. But anyway. The last three were with one of my best friends in the world whom I date off and on (long distance, long story) - zero regret. The absolute opposite of regret [Big Grin]

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First kiss-14
First Manual-16 or 17
First Oral-17
First Intercourse-17

No regrets at all :-D

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first kiss 15
first oral (given) 15
first oral (recieved) 17
first intercourse 16

all except my first kiss with my current boyfriend, and will be forever on [Smile]

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First kiss: 13
First manual: 17
First oral: not yet
First dry sex: 18
First intercourse: not yet

No regrets with what i have done and am happy to wait until the time is right for both myself and my boyfriend before going any further [Smile]

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I'm still a virgin, because I've never had a girlfriend before. The longest relationship, and I seriously am not lieing either.

The longest relationship, I've ever been in (with a guy) was 3 days! XD

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Hmm. I got my first kiss at 13, with a friend. I don't regret that at all, we were only experimenting and basically taught eachother to kiss because we could say what felt good and what didn't without awkwardness. funny thing is, he turned out to be gay. lol.

i gave and recieved oral and manual for the first time at age 14 with my boyfriend. lost my virginity with him as well. i'm not sure if i regret it or not. i did it for a lot of different reasons.. mostly because i wanted to be closer to him and trusted him. i made myself very vulnerable, though, and since our relationship ended badly its been hard to open up to anyone else sexually or emotionally. but as of now i'm seeing a very caring guy who has never pushed my limits. i think when i'm ready my first time with him will be like giving away a whole new virginity. wow, i'm rambling. *shuts up*

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First Kiss 15
First Manual 17
First oral (given)16
First oral (recieved) 17
First intercourse 17

All the 17's happened with a boy I'd been dating for 10 days, and known for 14. But we celibrated our 2 year aniversary this sept! lol, funny how it worked out.

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Kiss: 19
Manual: N/A
Oral: N/A
Intercourse: N/A

I'm 21. Scared to death of the stuff, really want to wait until married, but I'm seeing a conselor. My life is rather well, complicated in such a thing. It's the way I was raised and the fear and all, etc, due to abuse. I'm not pushing myself, though, I want to go at my own pace, even if I end up 30+ before I lose it.

Besides, in Cali it's illegal when you're under 18, so I'm glad I didn't do anything stupid. [Smile] That and I don't want an accident to happen and I end up with a child--I don't even know how to take care of myself on my own that well!

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Each person is so different!
Starting at an advanced age is ok, and it doesn't mean these people are conservative or nobody wants to be with them.
I never felt any sexual need at all until I was 18, and I probably wouldn't have had it yet if I hadn't started making out with guys!

First kiss: can't tell. I had so many kisses due to games before I had a real kiss...
First making out: 17
Manual: 18... but very slightly at first
Intercourse: 18 - regrets
Oral: 18 - regrets

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I'm 19 and I haven't had my first kiss yet, nor have I had sex. I might have a boyfriend at the moment, but i honestly have no idea where i stand with him actually-haha we'll go with him not being a boyfriend.
However I started masturbating at 19 *shrugs*

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