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jake042004
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Member # 20289

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Please help me out....I recently broke up with my GF of 1.5 years...and she was the only girl I had been with sexually EVER. Now here is my problem.....I have been dating a few girls but nothing too serious until last night...here it goes... like I said I have only been with my ex sexually....so I was fooling around with a girl I REALLY like and to make a long story short....when she saw my penis she said it was kind of small....what??? Talk about shallow!!! My ex never had a problem and I never thought it was an issue but i've only been with 1 girl. This kills me inside that someone would say that. Anyway, I will not talk to her again!!! Immediately after she left I went and got a tape measure and *it* was close to 7" and 5.5" around. I've never thought that females cared about size anyway...any help would be greatly appreciated...sorry this post is so long...I needed to get this off my chest

Jake

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logic_grrl
Scarleteen Volunteer
Member # 8067

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Given that average erect penis length is between 5 and 6 inches inches, this girl is not only extremely shallow, she's got some extremely unrealistic expectations (unless she was trying to make a joke).

But it certainly sounds like you're better off without her in your life. And you're right, generally women who sleep with men care a whole lot more about the person attached to the penis than how big it is.

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Silver1381
Activist
Member # 18771

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Hi Jake. Try not to let her comment get to you. It sounds like you are doing the right thing by moving on. If she is going to be that shallow about the size of a body part, then I personally would say good riddens. To me, her comment makes me think that she wasn't really interested in you as a person.

One more thing, don't worry about future partners. There are plenty of people out there who are aware and mature enough to know that people and their parts come in all kinds of shapes and sizes.

Best wishes to you!

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jake042004
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Member # 20289

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Thanks for the words of encouragement

I'm still trying to work through it.

Jake

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ILuvGabe24
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Member # 20211

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Well, it really doesnt matter how large you are, if she is going to be picky about size... she is very shallow! What I would do if I was you: talk to her about it (try not to make a big deal about it though) if she is still rude about, forget her. You can do better.

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babyboo
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Member # 20320

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for mah advice dont worrie it s crule to have a girl make front of u like dat men mah front of mah boobs all the time to o cuz im not a "b" cup yet dont worrie things will grow
n if they dont dont worrie size dont count itz how whell u use it. mah b/f is a 7 1/2 and a 8 fully hard but that doesnt mean that hes the greastest at sex but then again iv never felt better
if a girl critizes u like dat then tell them not to suck it if they have that much of a problem like i said sizze dont matter !!!! remember that
if i was u i would have ben crying
its wrong to do that to someone
have fun jake "ur not that small"

[This message has been edited by ookuotoe (edited 10-11-2004).]

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-Jill
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Member # 5375

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babyboo, please use standard English when posting. All the abbreviations and intentional misspellings make your posts very hard to read.

I also edited your post because there's no need to quote everything, just the relevant bits.

New to Scarleteen? might be helpful.

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