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I am a virgin, but really want to have sex. I don't have anyone in my life(boyfriend/girlfriend), but I can't shake the feeling. I masturbate and I feel like I need more. I hate to ask a random friend, but it is really hard to wait. What should I do?Continue to masturbate? Try new stuff with Masturbating?
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Generally, when we're feeling like this, it's helpful to try and think about what we think sex with another person could give us that sex with ourselves can't, so we can better figure out if sex with another person is what we want.

And to do that, too, we're going to be thinking about who the other person is specifically, since sex with one person can be radically different than sex with someone else.

So, what's "more" for you in this?

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