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My b/f has little bumps on his face. I asked him why are they there and he tells me because he didnt have sex in a long time( 3 months or so) Is that why he has bumps on his face? Can you get bumps from not having sex in awhile?
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No you can get it frm not having sex in awhile, unless thats a new thing. It could be but I never heard of that.
I used to have bumps on my face, it was called Lupus, no big deal, it went away. It didnt itch or anything, it just was there.
Does yours itch and bother you? If so you should probably go see a doctor and he can give you something that will help it go away.
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Sweetie ... i think this excuse is right up there w/ blue balls and "but everyone's doing it!"
I think it's an excuse ... I hope you didn't buy it If you want to have sex w/ him, that's great, but he has no right to try and convince you that he's suffering by not having it ... that's mean.
He should probably get to the doc and find out what the bumps are all about
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Well, unless the dude's got little sperm deposits in his pores, I wouldn't connect acne with lack of sex. And if the dude's got sperm deposits in his pores -- well, he must have some VERY unusual condition.
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It's probably acne (like whiteheads), or Lupus, as Glitter said, or some other simple, safe thing. If it really worries you ro him, get it checked out.
But if he's trying to guilt you into having sex with him because he has "bumps", and you're not ready, don't listen to him. You don't have to do anything you aren't ready for.
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HAHAHAHA. Thats a good one. I am suprized I hadn't used that one yet. That IS a total lie and he was probablly just trying to get you to have sex with him. If you dont have sex with him regularly then thats why he probablly said it. Although I really wouldn't call him a liar because it may be something he heard in school or from his friends. Alot of those rumors go around.
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If you want to have sex w/ him, that's great, but he has no right to try and convince you that he's suffering by not having it ... that's mean. 
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