Whenever I finger my girlfriend, she holds onto my arm very tightly and kinda tries to pull my fingers out, but she wants me to finger her and she gets pleasure from it but am I hurting her? Even with only one finger halk way in? Im confused please help!
The only way to know is to ask her. She may want you to slow down or go less deep, in which case you might want to suggest to her that she tell you so. Or she might simply be enjoying it so much that she is holding onto you tightly. Ask her what she likes. And if she's just holding your arm because she's enjoying it, and that's hurting you or making it difficult to do what you're doing, just let her know and ask her to hold on somewhere else if necessary
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