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curiousconfused
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Recently, during a relationship of mine, my gf gave me a bj... and i licked her clit... and it was a 69 position, and i enjoyed every second of it, with my penis being sucked.

Now, i've already broke up with her, and i have memories and fantasies of that day when we did it. Wow, it was great, and now, it's giving me problems!! Problem is...

I REALLY, REALLY feel like experiencing that again, but don't know how as i don't think that it is a sane thing at all to go to her and ask.. "hey can u give me a bj again..." haha i think i would just get a slap on the face as we have already broke up. But right now, i just have that desire... the desire fueled by what happened that day... and i don't know how to get it. It seems like it's gone, and there is NO CHANCE for me to experience that again... How? How to fight this feeling, and can you help me on this? I am having too much of wanting for it... want a bj badly.


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dailicious
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Sexual desire can easily be relieved by using your own hands.

I understand you would like input on this situation, but please do not post more or less the same questions in multiple topics on the board.

I have addressed your questions in your topic here: http://www.scarleteen.com/forum/Forum27/HTML/011353.html .

I think you might benefit from reading some of our articles on the site.

Sexual desire is a simple want, there is nothing about it that you cannot either relieve yourself or simply be able to control. Know that you're also young, you have a whole life ahead of you to form relationships and have sexual experiences again.

[This message has been edited by dailicious (edited 09-29-2005).]


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curiousconfused
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Well thanks for the info, and I really appreciate it. I must also say, forgive me for my impatience. It was because I saw that someone who posted something later got an earlier reply, compared to me who posted earlier.

Also, is it alright to use explicit words like those? The guidelines say that we cannot post questions which ask materials like... "How to give a blow job?" But just referring to it is okay right? Or is it not?

Thank you once again.


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Referring is fine, as it's simply terminology for a sexual act.

And you're welcome.

For future reference as well, many times more recent posts will be answered before ones that were there before and have not been answered because the answer to the newer topic is more straightforawrd, simple, or the Advocate or Sexpert answering other topics at the time may not know the correct or best answer to give you for your questions.

[This message has been edited by dailicious (edited 09-29-2005).]


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