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misstorirae
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A few months ago I had sex with my boyfriend. He is 7 years older than me. For the past few months I have felt horrible, emotionly and physically. We've had sex a number of times since August. I don't love him and he is always telling me he loves me but because of the age diffence I don't know if he really does. He is at a time in his life that he could have a great job and party all of the time. He is a paramedic, and I am a homeschooled student. I have no idea what to do or say anymore. I don't know if he is with me because of my looks or my heart. Not to be a snob but I am pretty and it makes me look at least 4 years older and I have been getting attention from guys that should be staring at my older sister not me. I know I need to live life. But it seams so hard just to look at him anymore.

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-Tori


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Heather
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Let's try flipping this around so you can address what you DO know and what is certainly relevant:

Do YOU want to be with him?


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misstorirae
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Yes, I want to be with him. But, I don't love him yet. I'm not sure if he knows what I'm going through. We are at completely different times in our lives. If I was at least 5 years older I would feel better, because by the time I'm in college he will want to have children An I will only be starting towards my life time goals. We communicate very well but that is no longer enough.

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-Tori


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