Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost two months now and he keeps going behind my back and seeing his ex.i swore to him that i wouldnt get mad at him just as long as he tells me the truth. But he said no and that they are just friends.But i use to talk to her but i got fed up w/everything she keeps telling me stuff that they have done and ive caught him twice and he admitted to it and he said that he wouldnt do ne more.But im scared that im going to get my heart broken. Some one please help me.
Posts: 1 | From: millington,TN,US | Registered: Jun 2004
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If he's already lied to you twice, I wouldn't suggest waiting around for the third strike.
Trust is VITAL to a healthy relationship. If you can't trust him -- and he's given you reason not to be able to, both by lying AND by not honoring your monogamy agreement (and also opening you up to extra STI risks that way) -- you can't have a healthy relationship with him.
So, personally, I'd advise you to cut your losses now and move on to greener pastures.
I know this may not make you feel better, But a relationship REQUIRES TWO dedicated people, and he's not dedicated, so it won't work. Good luck to you, and best wishes.
Posts: 3 | From: Plainfield, Illinois, USA | Registered: Jul 2004
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