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i don't know where to start. my two best friends, who i have been really dependant on for the past year or so, have suddenly decided they don't want to associate with me anymore because i am a "manipulative, lying bitch". and maybe i am, i don't know. i called them a few days later to apologize... it didn't go over that well. one of them said in a reluctant way that she'd think about it and the other hung up on me. so now i feel like crap. i haven't been eating properly - after a few bites my stomach just knots up and i can't eat anymore. i've been hearing things again, but this time it's not voices, it's this gnashing noise, like that of a guillotine or something. and i honestly don't know if i want to live or not. i know it sounds pathetic that two people should matter this much to me, but i can't help it. they helped me out through a lot and we had so many good times together. and now that they're not in my life anymore i just feel... empty. i don't have that many other friends (try two or three) and it just... sucks. help. i just need to know what i should do to feel better.

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It's very understandable and reasonable that you feel so upset by this. These are two people who you really trusted and loved. In my opinion, that was pretty crappy of them to just ditch you all of a sudden. You deserve to have better friends. However, if it is driving you to a really bad point, you need to tell someone. A trusted adult or someone of the sort.

...i've done all i can do; could i please come with you?

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If you're hearing things that aren't there and you're not sure if you want to live or not, I'd say it's time to talk to a counsellor or doctor as well.

There's nothing "pathetic" about what you're going through, and you deserve to get as much support as possible through this rough time.

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