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preciouspinkdoll
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Okay I have a big problem! My friend, that I will just call Aubrey Coker, is sort of over weight... okay, she is obese. I honest to god have no prob what so ever with that, but she comes over to my house and literally raids my cabinets and refrigerator. I've been to her house and believe me she doesnt go hungry!!! I am really tired of going to bed hungry and my mom gets pissed off at me when she comes home from work and there is no dinner to cook. I dont wanna be insensitive and I don't want her to think I am making fun of her weight but it is getting really annoying!!! Will somebody please offer there opinions, advice and comments? thank you. - starving in seattle
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girly2499
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The only thing I could think of is next time she says she's hungry at your house just offer something else to do. Try to distract her. Or just say you don't have anything good, unless she just helps herself to your cabinets then that's different.
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preciouspinkdoll
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She does shell just walk into my house and help herself. I try to offer other things to do but all shell do is say no im hungry

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justaguy
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ok gees hmm well try talking to her saying that yall (exuse my acent im a texas) dont have the cash to keep food and your mom is getting angry now if she was really a true friend she wont get pissed and she would except it but dont say it in an angry tone, but rather in girl to girl talk
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ningrrl
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Let's be serious. Maybe you should just sit her down and talk to her about it. Simply say something like.. "Listen.. we're having some problems right now, and Mom is trying to conserve as much food as possible. If you want, you can go home and eat, and come back later." You catch my drift?

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