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garbagegrl01
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ok well ive been dating the same guy for over 7 months now....and we've lasted longer than any other couple ive ever known, without having sex(im 17). i was waiting until i got some birth conrol....well,i guess i lost my virginity tonight. and im not regretting it, but im kinda weirded out, like im in a daze....is this normal?
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Okay honey, according to the guidelines you agreed to upon registration, you agreed not to double post.

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You may not post multiple identical or similar topics in different threads.

The Ask A Sexpert forum is one where only all four of our sexperts may reply so if you want a wider range of responses, post in the main forums.

Virginity is not universally defined. But could I assume there was penis-in-vagina intercourse? If so, I certainly hope you were protected and you might want to check out the following articles.

Virginity In Context

Sex Readiness Checklist

First Intercourse 101

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sorry......its late and im new to this board.
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It's alright garbage Just check out the pages Lin's given you and if you have any other questions feel free to come back and ask ...

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And just so you know, people have sex at all different times. Some "last" seven months, some take two weeks before they are ready, and some (ahem) go nearly four years without having actual intercourse.

Virginity is what you make of it. These days there is no real "virginity standard" to weigh in on. Some people hold on to the concept of virginity until they have had penis/vagina intercourse, some people are raped and choose to consider themselves "virginal" until they willingly engage in sexual activity with a partner. It's all subjective and not something to get too "weirded out" about. Take care...

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i did check those out, they were extremely helpful....you guys are great...thanks!
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I would say that it's normal to have a daze feeling. I kinda felt like that. I think that each girl has varied feelings about doing the deed for the first time. I believe that it just depends on the girl. Sex involves a lot of emotions that should be dealt with. Talk to your partner about it. Maybe that'll help.
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