I im actualy Angry at the world.not angry at the world in a way of saying im some little kid who dosent get his way,i angry cause the world is getting kinda out of hand.What started my little flame of anger is when My current girl friend was raped at school and now she is gonna have a baby.First off WHY in the name of all that is right would anyone especialy a little kid no older than 15(im 12 and 3/4,shes 12 and i think he was 13 too)would wanna forcefully have sex with somone he probly dosent know?It makes me sick,but i will stay by her side and help her in all the ways i can.
What made my flame or anger continue to burn is this.on the news once again a little girl in New york went to hang out with a boy she met in a Yahoo!chatroom.Well,it turns out that this "boy"was actualy a man.she was found and there is proof what she was raped because of some things that i wont say here.
What made my flame of anger EXPLODE into a inferno is This child sexual assult thing.WHAT THE HELL IS GOING ON?!?!?!!Kidnapping little girls just so you can get a quick,free,and easy fudge??Stalking minors because there Vaginas[Spelling?] are small?Rubing up on little girls behinds in super markets,just for a cheep THRILL?!?!
And Finaly what made my anger reach its limit and cause a minor supernova[dont ask]
is this.In allmost every teen chatroom i have ever been in(over anout 500 i think)the topic of Sex is everywere.even more in Pre teens rooms.its sad,but everyone knows were the problems starts,but they do nothing about it.Its like finding a wasps nest close to a childs play pen and leaving it there while the child goes into it to play.
I know this might sound like i have no clue what im talking about but if anyone feels that way,i really dont give a damn.
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Minirich, I think you have every right to be angry. It is incredibly sad and comnpletely infuriating.
However, what I have to add is that more times than not, people who are sexual abusers, and people who have been sexually abused are not helped by avoiding the topic of sex. In fact, it's been shown time and time again that when it comes to sexual education, the more sex is responsibly and openly discussed, the less taboo it becaomes, and the LESS likely anyone is to be a victim or a perpetrator.
In addition, most pedophiles aren't after small vaginas, and it really isn't about sex. It is abouut controlling someone who is farily defenseless, and about having complete power over someone. Though many enact it THROUGH sex, it isn't really sexual, it is emotional and psychological and stems out into many other areas.
I know EXACTLY how you feel, and I am sorry. On behalf of this world. I also am disgusted about the way so many of us are treating our world...what with wars are pollution which just DISGUSTS me! I wish things weren't this way...but when people like you voice what you are feeling, it all helps... so keep on doing what you are doing and encourage others to do the same...talk about what they (and you) are feeling...we can all make a difference if we keep on fighting
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First, i think you need a hug *huggles* If i were there, i would give you a real one, but i'm not.
Second, I'm sorry that you and your gf have to go through all of that. As sad as it is, it's a fact of life. I have never been raped, but i was molested by my ex bf (as hard as that is to admit) and i know what it's like to feel violated.
I suggest that both of you get some councelling. For her, because of the obvious ... She was violated and it will be hard for her to trust anyone (including you). And you, because you have issues of your own to deal w/. You're very angry (w/ good reason) and if you do'nt deal w/ it now, it will only build up and get worse, given the time.
You're allowed to be mad, angry, sad ... CONFUSED (sorry 'bout the caps, it's important tho) but you have to talk about it. Find someone that you can talk to ...
If you have icq, i'd be glad to talk to you there. My number is in my profile ... Find me if you ever need to talk
First of all, you sound very compassionate and mature for your age. And you sound like you do know what you're talking about. I'll join in for a Big Group Hug- *big hug* I am very sorry about your gf. Please get her to open up to you. Talking to a school councelor is a good start. I wish I was as mature and aware as you are when I was a pre-teen(which was five yrs ago). Its good to be aware and educated. You can make a difference that way.
This place is really positive and educational, though. I'm sure we could help you. Whatever you do, don't hold in your anger. Let it out, talk to your family & gf, and concentrate on how you can help your gf. The world is a cruel place but what we have to remember is that we can make it better. Think positive. Good luck.
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