EWWWW YOU GUYS! Ok I need advice once again. My cousin is like 29 years old and he's very close to the family. Anyways, I was over his house once over the summer and he was working on my bike for me. Well one of his friends came over and he was older like 30-ish. He looked like he was at least 50 though. Well I'm standing there (i was 14 at the time) and the guys like "Hey how old are you?" I told him 14...He goes "You look like you're older, like 18 or 19." He kept saying things like that when my cousin wasn't close enough to listen. Now just recently my Cousin was over for dinner with his friend and his friend's daughter, AND that same guy. Well he was in my house so obviously I didn't like that, and he kept talking to me and stuff. I was obviously very uncomfortable so I had my friend John come over (he's just a friend). This guy kept saying things to us like "Are you guys bf & gf?" and "You get prettier every time i see you" "Man you look so much older from the last time I saw you.".... Anyways well they left and I told my Mom I didn't want him over anymore, but I didn't tell her why. Turns out he's been asking my Mom on dates and stuff and always wants to come over. For some reason I can't help but think this guy is just trying to get at me. I don't want to tell my Mom that because she'd go off on him, and my cousin would probobly kill him, but their such good friends. I don't really know what this guy's intentions are but I want to tell my Mom about the crap he's been saying to me (without getting him thrown into one of the great lakes). Any suggestions on telling him off? Or telling my mom?
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Tell your mother. Tell her exactly what you told us. Don't worry about it. If he's hit on her, she'll understand.
And don't worry about whether this guy gets told off -- he's a first-class creep and he doesn't (obviously) know where to stop or how to be appropriate. And he isn't going to learn unless someone makes it absolutely 110% clear to him that what he is doing is NOT appropriate. It is not your job to protect HIM, it is your job to protect YOURSELF.
do this make a printout wht u wrote and wht other ppl are saying. i agree with them all. print this from a printer and show it to your mom or your cosins. this guy is lookin for trabol. you have to act before it get bad. ok?
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