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Heather
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And replied.

Let me know if there is anything else (via email is likely best) I can do for you to prevent this guy from further harassing you.

He's banned here, but should he try and register again, I will send a harassment report to his ISP.

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He's good with computers...probably used a proxy or a college computer.
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Heather
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Not good enough. [Smile] No worries about him here, we've got you covered. Just do what you need to at school and your computer re: this situation.

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Thanks Heather *hugs*
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hey melpomene

how u doin now hun?

i start going bk to councilin as of tomorrow am scared but happy at the same time

if u would like to talk privately i could ask Heather to pass on my details if thats ok with her? i also dont live far from u if u want me to look for sti clinics or anything like that near u

xxx

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Heather
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Hey Stacey: to protect everyone's privacy and safety, passing emails between users is not something we;ll do. And we can also easily help users find STI clinics near to them if they want that help.

While we know we can verify the indentities of our staff and volunteers, the same can't be said for users, so that's not within our policies, and often, protection of that privacy is one reason users feel comfortable posting at Scarleteen in the first place. You're, of course, welcome to talk as you like here, but that's all we can offer.

[ 03-07-2007, 03:26 PM: Message edited by: Heather ]

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I hope your councelling goes well Stacy, I was tested for STIs a little bit earlier today, they didn't tell me when I'll get my results and I'm a bit worried what they'll find.

thanks for all your help.

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Oops, didn't know there was another page, and didn't know we weren't allowed to communicate outside of scarleteen either...sorry Stacy
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hey

thanks yea councilin was ok, i feel a bit raw but i expected that, if they do happen to find something, then its best that you know now and can be treated, but i have crossed my fingers for you that everything will come back clear [Smile]

i didnt think about the communication thing sowi, but i do come on here everyday if u wana chat

xxx

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(Hey Stacy? One other thing we ask in the user registration is that users post in clear, readable English, not in netspeak. So, if you could please try and do that when you post -- for instance, "sorry," not "sowi" and "you" not "u" -- we'd be appreciative. Thanks!)

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I hope your councilling works for you. I suppose I need to know...but it's a bit scary.

It's still nice to chat on here...

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If it's any consolation, melpomene, STI testing is pretty nervewracking for everyone the first time 'round. It does get easier once you get in the yearly habit.

Be thankful though: back when I first started getting screenings, you'd have to wait as long as months for some results. Boy, was that wait fun to sweat out. [Smile]

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How long does it take to get results???

Months? god! poor you!

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The individual clinic should have told you (you can always ask), but it shouldn't be more than a few weeks at a maximum. If you want to know, just ring them up and ask.

And yep: wasn't the good ol'days for those of us getting tested back when, that's for darn sure.

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A few weeks.. tha sounds ok...it going to bother me now..

Weren't many people getting tested, when you were? or did testing processes take longer?

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quote:
Originally posted by Miss Lauren:

it lists ALL of the scenarios

Not even close to all of them. just a small fraction of them.
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Hey wamu, this thread is nearly two months old, and digging up old threads to correct users, especially moderators and volunteers, is not OK. Pretty much every rape situation, if you looked at the list, can be fit into one of the scenarios, or perhaps several of them.

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