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Super-Girl1
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Okay, lemme start of by saying that my school has the WORST case of peer pressure. In my group of friends, i always felt left out bcuz all my friends had boyfriends and though they didnt rub it in, they couldn't help but be exited when they got a box of chocoltes or whatever. THEN i came to know that there was this guy who liked me! He asked me out and i exepted...exept that i never really liked him.Then one day he tried to kiss me after a date.I freaked out and I think he got a wind of it and asked me what the problem was. I chickend out and broke up. Now im feeling horrible and dont know what to do...shud i tell him the truth?
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Heather
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The truth of....?

I mean, if he didn't get that you weren't into him when that happened, I'd be pretty surprised. So, he probably doesn't need that information.

However, perhaps you can apologize for the way you behaved, and for not being direct with him then?

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alright...i texted him. He was pissed, or really shocked anyway. He said that it wasn't very nice of me and that i should have come clean earlier.
So i guess i learnt my lesson :| Thanks Heather.. [Smile]

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Heather
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You know, we all make social gaffes in life. The best we can do is just what you did: apologize for them, take responsibility and learn whatever we did from a mistake so we don't repeat it.

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