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CaitlynnForever
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im in a horrible relationship.
well actually, i wouldnt even call it a relationship.

a)he wont text me, call me, NOTHING.
b)the texts i actually DO get sound like there supposed to be sent to other people, other girls.
c)hes like 5 years older, and a total scumbag(in my book).

Well, lets put it this way.. he "sexted" me like the first week i met him and its not exactly big so i dont know why hes so proud?
and, i wouldnt send anything to him so hed get like pissed.

the only reason im with him is because.. my life sucks.
my step-dad just died of cancer, my best-friend is always to busy to hang with me or to "insensitive" to help me with my current situation, im always stuck at home with nothing to do cause all my friends make plans with eachother and never think of inviting me.. (they say i should invite myself, wow.. right?)
so, i think that its great when he actually texts me that he says im beautiful and says all these nice things to me.
but,
he wants to have sex with me.. and i A-B-S-O-L-U-T-E-L-Y dont like him that much to have sex with him.

so what do i do, break up with the scum and my life probably could get.. better?
or
stay with him, and let him cheat on me everyday.

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Heather
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You say that you're in this because your life sucks, but it seems to me this is just one of the things making your life sucky.

In other words, with this gone, that's one less way your life WOULD suck.

We can talk about some ways to handle the other things going on, if you like, but I think it's very clear -- even to you -- that your first step of the Stop CaitlynnForever's Life From Sucking So Much plan is to ditch something like this that you know isn't making you happy, you know it's offering you anything of real benefit, and you know is clearly just a dead-end for you.

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