Donate Now
We've Moved! Check out our new boards.
  New Poll  
my profile | directory login | search | faq | forum home

  next oldest topic   next newest topic
» Scarleteen Boards: 2000 - 2014 (Archive) » SCARLETEEN CENTRAL » Relationships » BOY HELP

 - UBBFriend: Email this page to someone!    
Author Topic: BOY HELP
Member # 50661

Icon 2 posted      Profile for imamouseduh     Send New Private Message       Edit/Delete Post 
There is this guy that he is kinda a player but he really seems to like me. and i really like him to. he sometimes gives me mixed signals tho but he always texts me and asks me to text him. he goes to places that he knows ill be and we'll always be texting , but he will never approach me. he always tellls me im cute or hot or something. we are always texting and he always says he wants to hang out with me...but he always brings up that he wants to have sex with me to. Now i dont really have a problem with doing anything with him, its just that i want to be more that just the girl he fools around with. i mean , i want to be his girlfriend. i would be pretty open wit the relationship to , i just dont want to be called any mean or cruel names because i do stuff with him without being his girlfriend. how can i get him to ask me out to be his girlfriend? its just that i would be more eager to hang out and do stuff with him knowing that i am more than a "friend with benefits" sort of deal. i really do like him, and its obvious that he really likes me too...why cant he just get the hint to ask me already so we can do things? [Confused]
Posts: 1 | From: new jersey | Registered: Dec 2010  |  IP: Logged | Report this post to a Moderator
Member # 48970

Icon 1 posted      Profile for Britster     Send New Private Message       Edit/Delete Post 
You don't need to wait around for him to ask by any means!
You could try talking to him and telling him that you like him and asking him on a date (such as the coffee house classic). If he agrees, then bring it up over the coffee that if you and him were to get together, you want to be in an official, exclusive relationship, not as friends who have sex.

A good relationship is based on good communication, honesty, and openness. If you cannot communicate your wishes this early on, the problem may crop up again later in the relationship.

Posts: 89 | From: United States | Registered: Sep 2010  |  IP: Logged | Report this post to a Moderator
Member # 49077

Icon 1 posted      Profile for OWL Dan     Send New Private Message       Edit/Delete Post 

I agree with Britster; there is nothing wrong with being the one to ask him first and be honest about how you feel. You may never know how he feels if you don't ask. [Big Grin]


Posts: 842 | From: Ohio | Registered: Sep 2010  |  IP: Logged | Report this post to a Moderator

  New Poll   Close Topic   Feature Topic   Move Topic   Delete Topic next oldest topic   next newest topic
 - Printer-friendly view of this topic
Hop To:

Contact Us | Get the Whole Story! Go Home to SCARLETEEN: Sex Ed for the Real World | Privacy Statement

Copyright 1998, 2014 Heather Corinna/Scarleteen Providing comprehensive sex education online to teens and young adults worldwide since 1998

Information on this site is provided for educational purposes. It is not meant to and cannot substitute for advice or care provided by an in-person medical professional. The information contained herein is not meant to be used to diagnose or treat a health problem or disease, or for prescribing any medication. You should always consult your own healthcare provider if you have a health problem or medical condition.

Powered by UBB.classic™ 6.7.3