My boyfriend is 16 and he lives in an unhealthy environment. he was beat as a kid but it stopped after his dad passes away three years ago, although his back has over 30 scars. he is almost 17 and his mother is very controlling. she makes his life hell, taking everything away from him for calling me, and tells him he is worhtless and she would be better off without him and he was her worst mistake. and it is hurting him mentally. and then there is his uncles, who send him threatening text messages and voice mails, threatening to cause him bodily harm. my boyfriend wants nothing more than to be with me but his mother will not give me a chance. he is in an unhealthy, abusive and unstable environment. and his mom will not let him live alone let alone sign the papers for him to be emancipted. how can i help him become emancipated? my parents have agreed to give him a place to stay and they are willing to help him however they can.
what can i do to help him get emancipated?
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This website is run by the State of California court system, and the page i'm linking you to is the FAQ's on how to get emancipated in the state of Ca. That should help you get started, but if it doesn't help you at all, we can try to help further.
Just to also be clear, since emancipation is a long process and does involve getting a lawyer, that isn't his only option. (FYI, His mother doesn't need to sign anything: it's a judge who needs to okay emancipation, and it can be okayed without parental consent.)
Given there is a history of physical, verbal and emotional abuse in his household, he could call social services and more quickly be removed from that home.
Your partners could certainly let social services know that they would be interested in fostering him, but just so you're aware, that may or may not be considered a suitable situation. Since the goal is finding someone a stable home, a home of a girlfriend or boyfriend sometimes isn't considered to fall under that criteria, since a breakup would obviously make that a less stable place.
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