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lyss93
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His name is Devin and theres always been this thing between us. Last year he moved away and now hes back. I keep wanting him to look at me and pay attention to me. Talk to me etc..
But I have a boyfriend and weve been together for about a year and a half.
Do you think its just one of those guys thats theres always going to be that thing with? Or maybe I just want some attention? Maybe I have feelings for him that never got released before?
What do you think?

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Blue Koi
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Sometimes we are just simply attracted to other people, even if we are already with someone. There are so many people in the world, it would be hard to say that you only feel a connection with the person that you are with! However, committing to one person that you are attracted to, and putting time into that relationship, takes it to another level.

Why do you think that you are attracted to Devin? Perhaps there are some issues with your current boyfriend that you should talk about. You guys could be perfectly happy, but it is always good to talk. Perhaps a starter is

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go through the questions. perhaps it will remind you all over again why you chose your boyfriend in the first place, and you'll end up forgetting about this other guy. Nevertheless, this will open the doors for communication, so if you don't feel like you're getting enough attention, you can explore your feelings and talk it out.

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lyss93
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Ok thanks.
Devin and I have always had this weird relationship, we never got together officially. Because there was something always there in the way. But you know when you both know that somethings there and youve expressed that to eachother. Is it just going to be one of those things maybe thats just going to be there

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