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it doesn't make sense why a guy would have really odd behaviour towards one girl for a couple of years compared to everyone else that he has dated or flirted with (e.g talks to every girl in person except her, but talks on msn, stares from far away and gets uncomfortable near her) and then get a girlfriend who he is totally normal with, but all the while being unable to look the other girl in the eyes, but then later online remember things like her outfit =/

i've accepted whats happened but i just feel like i've been thrown away with no explanation - if he didn't like me at all why didn't he just say rather than appearing to have something there? he's tied up things with other girls so i feel annoyed that i was the one left 'hanging' - i don't see why he couldn't do this as i've seen him confident with girls, it shouldn't be hard for him. i thought it was obvious that i liked him which would give him the 'give way' as to either say to me 'leave me alone' or 'i like you too.' about a week ago he sent me a message just saying 'hii >.<' but i ignored it because i have no idea what is going on. what should i think? [Confused]

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People just aren't mind readers. What you may consider odd behavior may not be that odd to them, or perhaps you were just looking for something odd.

Likewise, sometimes it is difficult for people to catch on to our intentions, even when we believe we are being very obvious about it.

How about you just talk to him? [Smile] In any regard, the best thing you can do when you want to find something out is to ASK. [Big Grin]

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