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i went out on a first date with this guy the other day ..i knew him a little .. but not really well.. to the movies .. it was really nice. i liked it a lot. im pretty sure this guy likes me because he texts me and calls me. But he has never said " i like you" .. he just said he wants to see me again . and we are supose to see eachother this week . the thing is i know i like him, like i know i really want to get to know him. Should i wait for him to say something? or should i just be up front and tell him .. " hey i kinda have a crush on you" . And if you think i should say something to him... should i say it in person?
Posts: 19 | From: orillia,ontario,canada | Registered: Aug 2005
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Sometimes people don't come out and say things like that--he may feel like it's implied through his actions. What you could do is say after the next date that you're really enjoying what you're doing and that you'd like to continue it.
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It all really depends on what kind of person you are. If you are an agressive person, then go for it! Timing is everything. Wait for the right moment and just tell him and yeah I think if you are going to tell him you should do it in person because its more intimate and more sincere. Good luck! Posts: 217 | From: Virginia | Registered: May 2004
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I don't think it matters that deeply if your shy or agressive. If you like the guy and want to see him, next time your with him just kinda whisper to him "ya know, i really like you." ect ect. that's how i started my relationship, and we've been together for, well, long enough to say it worked.
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It depends on how you feel about it ? Do you feel it is fairly easy for you to tell him well I would like us to be more than friends ? If not, don't do it. You can also just say if you want : do you expect us to be more than friends.
The thing is not all boys will tell you I love you like that. Sometimes you just have to guess or ask them. If he tries to kiss you and set more and more date that could be a sign that he likes you. If you want to be sure just ask him how he feels about him and you.
You can also just wait to see how things turns out. Eventually, it will be easier to know if the guy likes you. Sometimes you need more than a date to discover how you really feel about a person. You sometimes need to know the person better.
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