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ESSENCE_1824
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MY BOYFRIEND IS THE KIND OF PERSON THAT KEEPS ALOT OF SECRETS FRM OTHERS. HE CANT KEEP A SECRET FRM MR THO B/C I CAN FIND OUT ANYTHING. hE DOESNT WANT OTHER PPL 2 NO THAT WE GO OUT, EVEN THO IT HAS NOTHIN 2 DO WIT THEM. WEN WE R AROUND CERTAIN PPL, HE DOESNT EVEN AGNOLAGE MY PRESENCE. I WANT TO SLAP HIM, BUT @ THE SAME TIME, I HAVE A DIFFERENT FEELING...SOMETHIN NEW THAT I CANT EXPLAIN. ~ESSENCE~

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blueveggie
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Please don't type in caps- makes things hard to read and it kinda means you're yelling in netspeak.. english is good too [Smile]

Him not acknowledging your presence isn't really a good thing, I don't think.. and hiding it from everyone sets off alarm bells for me. Why would he be hiding it unless it was something he wasn't supposed to do, was wrong, etc?..

Just my two cents which very well may be a useless couple of pennies.

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kitka
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Depending on how long you've been dating him, he might be nervous about letting other people know about your relationship. Sometimes guys do that, and in my experience it's pretty normal. If he keeps doing that 3 months from now, that's a bad sign.
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-Jill
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I'm going to agree with blueveggie and say his behavior is off. Actually, I'd call it completely unacceptable.

You're dating. You are supposed to want to be with the people you're dating. If he wants to hide his relationship with you from everyone and will not so much as acknowledge you, it's time for you to move on.

Like blueveggie, I have questions about his motives for this behavior but mostly, I don't care. You deserve to be treated far better than that, no matter what his reasons are.

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