Well today i was at practice with my g/f and other friends for a 15th.... and well i lent one of my female friends my cell becuase she wanted to see it. At the same time my girl was calling me i couldnt do two things at the same time and i was closer to my friend so i gaved her the fone and went to my girl... she then got mad and said nm.. and started to get stupid with me calling me a Fn Bi*ch and a complete ashole.. I told her in a calm tone and said girl chill out cool down dont scream and there is no need to curse... she then slap'd me a slap i didnt see and did not in any moment see why she did that. I smiled becuase i was surprised by that and half of the rest seeing it. I kept my cool and just smiled but deep inside i wanted to do the same. but i have morals.. so i didnt and i told her still in a calm mature tone.. there was no reason for that slap. she then started to calm me other names.. so i just left her sight. then while practicing the dances.. she continued calling me names and saying do this like this..!! this like that !!! Since that moment i already had my cool and just didnt speak did not look at her and kept my cool.. she would push me to do things right .. when she was the one not doing the steps right.. so i just muted everyone and did my biss. she really got annoying with her BS. and screamed at her in front of everybody and said Stop your Fn BS and Dont Fkn tell me how to do things.. when i knew what i was doing ! she then kept on for a min and i got louder and got in her face literaly in her face and told her why the fk she trying me she then got scared and said im not in a low tone embarrest one.. I walked away frm practice.. now my question here is. Did I do anything wrong? she disrespected me for no reason what so ever. and specially with that slap to top it off.. my interest in her went low dead.. and i know i will not forgive her for it. what can i tell her? for what she did.. and what should i do with us?
Posts: 119 | From: Chmblee,GA | Registered: May 2005
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based on the cumulative conclusions i have gahered from your posts about this girl, you two really oughtta call it quits. first you have big trust and insecurity problems. now she's hitting you and you're getting into shouting matches. you guys sound downright abusive.
what has gone RIGHT with you two? because the picture you have painted for us here in this forum has not been a pretty one.
and last time, you got mad at Smurf. but let me remind you, you came to ST asking us for advice, and we've been reading every word you've said. so i'm being very honest with my reply. the prognosis for your relationship is really not good.
Trust is a big issuse in every relasionship. You need trust to keep it alive. If you don't have it, you need to sit down and talk about seriously. Maybe you guys just aren't at the stage in your lives right now that you can be handling growning up and a relasionship at the same time. Maybe if you took a brake and then tried it when yuo guys are ready a little farther down the road.
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Dymes, I agree with Gumdrop Girl you two need to break up. Everytime I read your post,you two are having problems. Yes relationships has it problems but come on there are to many here and for your health break up with her.
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