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Icon 1 posted      Profile for PuNkYeGg     Send New Private Message       Edit/Delete Post going out with this guy, i really really love him. But theres this other guy, we are really good friends and i dont think he likes me as anything more..but my friends say he does. He kisses me and hugs me all the time. I dunno how i feel about him, its like, when im with him i feel like i kinda 'fancy' him, but when hes not around its like i dont, but everytime i see him it brings the feeling back. Sorry if this makes no sense.....please help though...
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You're really young. And if you look back at your post history here, you'll see there is more than one guy you've dated you had very strong feelings for.

In other words: it is absolutely, totally okay to just DATE, without attaching yourself to someone. It's also okay for your feelings to change for those you're dating pretty quickly, and to FEEL very strong, even if they aren't lasting. That's developmentally normal, and part of that strong feeling is simply the heady feeling of romance with ANYONE, really.

So, how about you allow yourself these things? or even, maybe, some time without dating, since I can't recall a time you haven't been dating someone since you've been at the boards here.

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