hey, im intregued to know what hes all about!, let me explain my story, i used to date this guy two years ago, we didnt go out for long at all , he was my first boyfriend and he ended up messin me around a bit and breaking my heart. well anyway, since then iv had diff boyfriends etc, but always been still fasinated by my first boyfriend. wed met up afew times like, ages ago he offered to be my guitarist in my band but then never called me again after one practace. now just recently weve been meeting up again and weve been going out for drinks and cinema etc. and on one of these ocasions, he ended up standing me up. and i talked to him over the internet and he did have a good explination for it, and so we met up that night and we talked. and he admitted to messing me around in the past and he apolagised which i was quite surprised by. and i told him that this was his last chance. the thing is tho, i cant tell if he likes me again or not, i mean i think he does, but hes hard to work out. i really really like him he just has this something about him. he took me out to the cinema last night. like i say weve been out afew times, and my friends are all like, well whens he guna kiss you? im wondering the same thing. i really want him to im too scared to make the first move or say anything because of our past. another thing that puzzleed me was he sent me a message after we went to the cinema, quoteing a song by the band "soft cell" saying, "dont touch me please, i cannot stand the way you tease" ....im not a tease.. argh please help me im so confused, i want him so much! lol
girl, it sounds to me like he doesnt know what he wants. When men get confused... they go into circles with a girl, over and over again. He sounds confused and cant make up his mind about you. If I were you, I would just leave him alone and if he really likes you, he'll chase after you. I know what its like having more feelings for him because he is your first. Dont wait for him to get things straight. He has to do that on his own. I say go your own way, if its meant to be, he'll come after you. Trust me.
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hmm im worried if i let him go ill loose him, i dunno. i saw him tnight cause he was at the same gig i was at. but im meeting him properly on thursday, so im gunna see how things go. aww hes just so wonderful, even though i know im stupid for saying so because of the past. why do things have to be so complicated! carlz
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I believe Winnie the Pooh once said (or perhaps he repeated someone else's quote, I'm not trying to misquote): If you love something very much, let it go free. If it comes back, love it forever. If not, it was never meant to be yours.
Maybe taking a break can reassure you both of what you really want.
I think that that was your mistake. Also, if you know that he's confused and doesn't know exactly what he wants (which you do) then *you* need to take the first step. Seriously, you can't always expect the other person to take it. If you want it - take. Otherwise it's not going to be there anymore.
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