Hey... im seeing this guy that i kinda dont wanna be seeing. I dont really like him in that way anymore and i just wanna be friends. Its now the holidays and i wont be able to see him at school, im going out with him tonight. What im not sure about is, whether i should end it completely and just be friends or whether just to leave it, knowing i can see other people too. Im really confused cause he is one of my close friends aswell, I dont want everyone to think im mean or for it to be awkward between us, but i dont think it will work....Any help....thanks
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You owe him honesty. If you don't feel attracted to him, you do him no favours by continuing a relationship that your heart isn't into. Let him know. He may take it badly but it will enable him to move on to a person with which the attraction is mutual.
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